Sundays with Grandma, or a tale about a toddler who accepts bribes

My mother is a devout Catholic. This fact has not changed since I was born. What has changed is the fact that I am no longer a devout Catholic. This fact, by itself, poses a threat to my mother. It’s one of the many things that we disagree about—why I don’t go to church, and … Continue reading Sundays with Grandma, or a tale about a toddler who accepts bribes

The recession is over: it’s time to move on

This September marked the 10-year anniversary of the collapse of the Lehman Brothers, otherwise known as “the financial crisis of 2008” or “recession,” for short. Like many recent college graduates at the time, I was hopeful and excited at the prospect of having a career. I didn’t know exactly what I wanted to do, but … Continue reading The recession is over: it’s time to move on

The most distressed profession in America, according to NYT & Time

As a newly immigrated adolescent in the late '90s, I attended a public middle school, then went on to a public high school. It may have been 15 years ago since I graduated from high school, but I can remember a particular teacher named Mr. Harvard, who taught choir and band (RIP, Mr. Harvard) and … Continue reading The most distressed profession in America, according to NYT & Time

What it’s like to grow up with Asian parents

The other day, I was graced with an article in my inbox that describes perfectly the feelings of one adult Asian towards her parents and her culture. In "The Bitter Regrets of a Useless Chinese Daughter," Jianan Qian begins the story about her mother getting sick, and how she had a stroke with the ways … Continue reading What it’s like to grow up with Asian parents