Why can’t boys wear dresses?

The other night, as I was tucking her in bed (our usual night time ritual), I had a conversation with my daughter. Somehow, we got on the subject of clothes. "I love wearing dresses," she said proudly. Full disclosure--Lily is very girly. She adores dresses the same way that I adored wearing shorts when I was… Continue reading Why can’t boys wear dresses?

Who says fairies can’t be boys?

This is not the first and certainly not the last conversation I've had with my six-year-old about gender. And for what it's worth, I can't remember exactly everything that was said between us, so this is my rough translation of the conversation. Yesterday, while in the car, Lily said to me, "I love the Fairy books."… Continue reading Who says fairies can’t be boys?

Observations from a silent PTA mom

This week, I've been thinking about parent teacher associations. As the school year is coming to a close, there is no doubt a lot of fundraising going on. And as you may have guessed, my daughter's PTA is in full action mode. Somehow I got included in an email chain that began in March (perhaps… Continue reading Observations from a silent PTA mom

A girl can dream, right?

Yesterday, while driving to the library for storytime (one of our usual weekend activities), Lily declared from the backseat, "I'm going to be a singer when I grow up!" "Oh, really?" I responded. "Yeah." "I thought you wanted to be a teacher," I said. She's told me about her grown up dreams of wanting to… Continue reading A girl can dream, right?

Why are so many millenials hesitant to have kids?

On a cloudy Wednesday morning last month, I signed up to do some volunteering with my coworkers. About seven of us showed up, and after our task was completed, we walked to a restaurant across the street from the volunteer site for lunch. While waiting for the food, conversations began about a variety of topics.… Continue reading Why are so many millenials hesitant to have kids?