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It's almost tax season, so I thought I'd share this story from the archives of my memory. Even though it occurred a decade ago, the memory is still as fresh in my mind as anything. It's early February of 2009. I'm a 23-year-old newlywed getting ready for one of the most exciting things (to me, … Continue reading A rude (and taxing) awakening
Last week, I ran into someone I knew from an old job on the train. It was 7 o'clock in the morning. He was heading to work and so was I. This wouldn't have been any more common occurrence than riding the train itself, but every once in awhile I run into Paul. He and … Continue reading What I learned from four years in banking
This September marked the 10-year anniversary of the collapse of the Lehman Brothers, otherwise known as “the financial crisis of 2008” or “recession,” for short. Like many recent college graduates at the time, I was hopeful and excited at the prospect of having a career. I didn’t know exactly what I wanted to do, but … Continue reading The recession is over: it’s time to move on
As a newly immigrated adolescent in the late '90s, I attended a public middle school, then went on to a public high school. It may have been 15 years ago since I graduated from high school, but I can remember a particular teacher named Mr. Harvard, who taught choir and band (RIP, Mr. Harvard) and … Continue reading The most distressed profession in America, according to NYT & Time
The other day, I was graced with an article in my inbox that describes perfectly the feelings of one adult Asian towards her parents and her culture. In "The Bitter Regrets of a Useless Chinese Daughter," Jianan Qian begins the story about her mother getting sick, and how she had a stroke with the ways … Continue reading What it’s like to grow up with Asian parents
We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. - Joseph Campbell This year in February, I turned 33. Exactly ten years ago I graduated from college--the first in my family, in fact. It was a proud moment of my life. … Continue reading I came, I conquered, and I’m here to tell: the story of my twenties